Theo c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng con…<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m<\/strong><\/p>\n Theo TS t\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb B\u00edch H\u1ed3ng, gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean Tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110H S\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m TP.HCM, cha m\u1eb9 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 con trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n Ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai: Ch\u1ecdn y\u00eau th\u00edch hay ‘hot’?<\/p>\n \u201cH\u1ea7u h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u mong con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 ngh\u1ecbch trong vi\u1ec7c dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng b\u1ed1, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe, chia s\u1ebb t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i\u201d, TS H\u1ed3ng n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n Nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1eadp cho con c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t, TS t\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n H\u1eefu Long, Ph\u00f3 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c Ph\u00e2n vi\u1ec7n mi\u1ec1n Nam (H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean VN), khuy\u00ean: \u201cCha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m, t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. N\u00ean t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1eadt c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 kh\u01a1i d\u1eady nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch, ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a con<\/strong><\/p>\n Theo TS B\u00edch H\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c con th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, mong mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng m\u01a1, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a con.<\/p>\n TS B\u00edch H\u1ed3ng cho bi\u1ebft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 9 lo\u1ea1i tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean (nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 trong thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean), \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c v\u00e0 th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c (nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u00e2m thanh, th\u1ea9m \u00e2m t\u1ed1t), to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 logic (kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i to\u00e1n v\u00e0 l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn t\u1ed1t), t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp (giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t, d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng), th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t (gi\u1ecfi ch\u1ebf t\u1ea1o, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n x\u00e1c), ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef (kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t), n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m (th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cao), kh\u00f4ng gian v\u00e0 th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c (gi\u1ecfi quan s\u00e1t, xoay x\u1edf v\u1edbi c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian), tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc (c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn).<\/p>\n V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi t\u01b0 duy logic to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc to\u00e1n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5. Ai gi\u1ecfi v\u0103n th\u00ec vi\u1ebft v\u0103n bay b\u1ed5ng. \u201cCh\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u00edch g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con ph\u00e1t huy h\u1ebft n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n\u201d, TS H\u1ed3ng chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n \u201cCh\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 vi\u1ec3n v\u00f4ng, xa r\u1eddi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. N\u00f3i chung, nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, con m\u00ecnh h\u00e1t hay, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ca s\u0129 nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i \u00e9p con v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc ng\u00e0nh b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p n\u00ean s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 l\u1ee5y v\u1ec1 sau\u201d, TS H\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o.<\/p>\n TS B\u00edch H\u1ed3ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch: \u201c\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 sau. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n v\u00ec s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, mu\u1ed1n v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft \u0111i theo, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 cho cha m\u1eb9 vui l\u00f2ng. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 2 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p x\u1ea3y ra. N\u1ebfu th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u00edt, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfm tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00f3n tay, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u0103ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec9nh v\u00ec con b\u1ea1n v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1eadn tay ph\u1ea3i m\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u00e9p c\u1ea7m tay tr\u00e1i. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ee9 hai con b\u1ea1n nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft \u0111i theo nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng theo n\u1ed5i n\u00ean g\u00e3y g\u00e1nh n\u1eeda ch\u1eebng. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i tr\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng n\u00ean d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Theo c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch dung h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng con… \u0110\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m Theo TS t\u00e2m l\u00fd Nguy\u1ec5n Th\u1ecb B\u00edch […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2370,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[89],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2368"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2368"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2368\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2369,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2368\/revisions\/2369"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2368"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2368"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/virovtica.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2368"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}